Sunday, November 16, 2008
HELPING....
SO I'M THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO LIKES TO HELP PEOPLE WHEN THEY NEED IT... YOU KNOW LEND A HELPING HAND OR JUST LET THEM TALK WHEN THEY NEED TO AND NO ONE WILL LISTEN TO THEM.. BUT NOW I HAVE COME ACROSS SOMEONE THAT I'M SURE WANTS HELP BUT HE WONT LET ME HELP HIM... WELL HE DOES TO A POINT THEN HE GETS PISSY ABOUT IT.. I JUST DON'T WANT TO SEE HIM HURT HIMSELF IN THE PROCESS BUT I SEE IT HAPPENING NOW... HE IS A GOOD GUY BUT HE IS JUST LOST RIGHT NOW AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO... ANYONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS???
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It's a co-dependent relationship and is not healthy for either one of you. He has to be willing to make the right choices that lead to change in his life. You can't push him no matter how hard you try. You'll push him away and drive yourself crazy. Listen to him, then tell him he knows what he has to do and that he's a grown up and responsible for his own actions, then move on with your own life. It will be better for both of you. He only comes to you and gets pissy cuz he knows you'll still be there. When he realizes that you're not going to baby him, he'll either make changes or he won't. Period.
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